It can be tricky to tell if a contact lens is inside out. Gently place it on your fingertip in a cup shape and look at the edge: if it forms a ‘U’ with edges flaring out, it's inside out. Alternatively, the 1-2-3 imprint, if present, should be readable from the outside. Does this help with what you're experiencing? What kind of challenges do you face with contact lenses?